What we do for living

What we do for living is not what we want to do for life.

Our livelihood and life may contradict each other. If that is true then we are living in a real hell.

Ironically we feel the discomfort but hardly think about it and rarely take an action to change it.

What stop us from changing. Because we live for survival and others and along the way we compromise a lots.

In other words unacceptable choices made by us for livelihood make us helpless and we get trapped in our own thoughts and actions.

Unfortunately the only person who can change it is you.

Main Bujdha Bujdha Bujh Gaya

Main Bujdha Bujdha Bujh Gaya
Maera Karza Sirh toun Laeh Gaya

Main diggha see bahut zorh Di
Main Chipkaya see bahut zorh Di

Main udhda udhda udh gaya
Maera hassa zorh Di nickel gaya

Toun Bhajdha Bhajdha Bhajh Gaya
Main Aggon aakay pharh laya

I am sorry this poem is in Punjabi language. I will translate it in future if I get time. It is my personal feelings few from near the time of birth and few from today.
If curious just email me and may translate on urgent basis.

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About Graffiti artist and about a mentor.

We talk a lot about crime and vandalism in town but who so ever talk about it definitely are concerned about the issues.  Unfortunately they know they don't have plan to fix the issue.

Instead they just talk loud in meetings and media to polish their name for their self interest.

They know they can't stop the crime because they really don't know how!

But mentorship is the way to go and Cst. Troy Derrick did that miracle of stopping the crime single handedly.

Instead of lockup Ian Ireland behind bars or charge him for the crime, he decided to do which law doesn't allow conventionally and moreover concerned are not interested in finding ways to switch that anger against public into public interest.

Cst. Troy Derrick is real hero of Surrey. Teens are subjects of environment and can adapt to right environment if given a chance and given a helping hand to accomplishment.

I really like to see at least 20 to 30 % mentorship stories from law and order makers and regulators.

It might be debatable that Cst. Derrick took a big risk but it is old saying nothing big is achievable without risk.

Such risks are worth while even if success is not sure short!

Canadian Politics Today is becoming filthy and negative and hopeless. Rather than collectively working on social issues political parties are busy collecting contributions and spending on negative ads against each other. It is really shameful for a developed country to campaign in such a fashion and wasting public time, hopes and money.

All we need is more sincere citizens and officers like Cst. Troy Derrick.

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Why educated people vulnerable to failure?

Why educated people vulnerable to failure?

Basic difference between educated and uneducated is linguistic power and specific advance knowledge. Educated people have advantage of better communication skills and specific academic skills.

Educated people are tuned to specific areas of career. They are expected to be supervisor,  managers and other similar positions in various career directions.

When they fail to secure a gainful employment or self employment that matches their abilities and skills they are most frustrated and confused people on earth

On other hand an uneducated person is expected to do physical and non supervisory jobs. They themselves are prepared for that circumstances. An opportunity of supervisory or managerial position is an added bonus for them.

There is no doubt that lower level education makes it harder to grab higher level managerial position yet work ethics, hard work, loyalty and perseverance may help lower level educated person to achieve higher level managerial position.

How about the self employment and small to medium business level. This is the area where education becomes at par with hard work,  work ethics and especially open mind to take risk for new business ventures ranging from self employment, franchise to big chains etc. Most self employed works requires low level to medium level skills and is easily accessible through apprenticeship  or on job self learning.

This is more true when a educated person and non educated person get immigrated to new culture and country. Linguistic is more challenge for less educated person but not the open mindedness to work in any trade or industry to gain on the job training or self learning. More over skills are more in demand in developed countries rather than academically foreign educated and trained professional or post graduates or PhD.

This is the basic difference between a hard worker,  go getter and risk taker with little to minimum education verses highly educated professional. It is the willingness to work in any field with low compensation for less educated people as the backbone for their success.

On other hand highly educated are not really open minded and clear in mind to work for anyone in any field compared to less educated.

Eventually people regardless of their skill and education level may supercede others much faster simply because of their open mindedness to work for any one in any field for any compensation.

In nut shell, successful people are open minded, go getter, wiling to try any thing without too much emphasis to their family background, education and status.

Prime example is immigrants from Punjab, India who are quite successful in Canada, USA, Australia, Europe and any other part of world.

No doubt the old saying is so true that Punjabi and Onions are available in every part of world as readily as potatoes.

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Stress in our mind produces 3M-Stress-Chemicals in our brain. These 3M - Stress - chemicals are named as 3MSC.

3MSC has such a killer power to make your life a living nightmare. When 3MSC enter into your mind it produces lot of changes on your brain.

First change is unnecessary stress in your body muscles.
Second change is unnecessary pain in body muscles.
Third change is unnecessary headache and neck pain.
Fourth change is unnecessary tired body because of lack of good sleep.
Fifth change is unnecessary irritation or restlessness causing crankiness in behavior.
Sixth change is unnecessary forgetfulness as if you are million years old.
Seventh change is unnecessary  lack of interest in self care and family care.
Eight change is unnecessary decrease in pleasure activity especially with partner.
Ninth change is unnecessary worry and/or fear about your capabilities and feeling of helplessness, feeling if getting old and many more.
Tenth change is family, friends and partner start complaining about your disconnection with them.
Eleventh change is careless mistakes at work, more sick days, lower production, grumpy or irritating self feelings.
Twelveth change is self confusion and fear about yourself. Doctor recommends handful of antidepressants, sleeping pills, pain killers and therapies.
Thirteenth change is low self esteem, low self will and low self confidence.
Fourteenth change is feelings tired always or mist of time and feel like crying.
Fifteenth change is cutting off from self and others.
Sixteenth change is firm believe that there is nothing I can do to change and nor any useful help available to bring positive changes. Moreover therapies are expensive and hard to afford.
Seventeenth change is change in attitude of family, friends, partner, colleagues and boss towards you. Everyone start feeling that you are pretending to be sick.
Eighteenth change is losing trust of loved ones which hurts your progress the most.
Nineteenth change is sense of true hopelessness and compromising with yourself.
Twentieth change is feeling aloofness and alone in this world where no one understands you.
Twenty first change is feeling of hopelessness and sense of no help from loved ones and those whom you helped the most.
Twenty second change is feeling of emotionally broken heart where no one understands you and neither helps you.
Twenty third change is compromising with oneself and stopping taking advice from professional, loved ones and near and dears.
Twenty fourth change is getting addicted to drugs, alcohol and smoke.
Twenty fifth change is messed and addicted mind and totally irresponsible and irresponsive attitude towards everything.
Too bad some goes too far to
ignore oneself
Ignore others
Ignore everything
And die eventually sooner or later.

We all end up with some above changes unless we get the right help either by reading, referral,  recommendation or mentorship.

Self improvement by self help by putting positive efforts is the key of positive changes in life to get back on track.

No help and no advice and no treatment will bring any positive changes unless there is slight hope left in one's life.

No hope means no willingness to explore, agree, implement positive efforts to bring positive changes.

It seems like extreme 3MSC slowly kills all positive brain cells by the time one reaches the 25th level.

Some may not even reach to that level or beyond because of Weak-Wiil and Weak - support.

If you realize the effect of 3MSC on early stage and put even little efforts  to self improve ones condition, there are good chances you may understand yourself better and make small positive changes in lifestyle to help yourself to live a better life.

The best state of mind is the best lifestyle. We all mess up our lives to various levels (1 to 25) by letting negative things happen to us without taking any notice firstly, without realizing the negative impact in short and long range, without putting efforts to learn about ourselves and effect of our, others and atmosphere on ourself.

The best friend is who understand you and help you to resolve your issues.

And not a one who always agree with you and understand you but not capable of helping you.

There are three easy steps to understand yourself and your surrounding.
1 Know your Atmic Power
2 Know your Atomic Power
3 Know your Attitude Power

Your attitude (Mind) is subject of Atomic (material) and Atmic (Inside-True-You) powers. ATOMIC power is power of your body, power of food, power of your surrounding. ATMIC  POWER is power of your sense about yourself, others, surroundings and your place in world, your duties, your responsibilities, your actions, your reactions, your intuition, your conception, your thoughts, your fears, your worries, your will, your efforts, your attitude toward your own life and others.

If you have a poor attitude towards yourself there are very slim chances that you gave good attitude towards others.

Because it you have poor attitude toward yourself then that is all you have for others or towards others.

On other hand if you have a good attitude for and towards yourself then chances are you may gave good attitude for and towards others.

Atmic-Atomic-Attitude powers are interlinked and free of any religious faith, cultural faith but are highly interrelated  and interdependent.

You want to learn yourself then you must learn all three and their interrelationships and their functions and effects to make yourself a positive personality which will attract others towards you without even putting ant efforts to go close to others.

The hidden nature of universe is opposite of our conventional brain functioning and thinking.

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